Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. ~Henry Ford
This Section is dedicated to learning new things. Things you may have not known, thought of or even thought possible. We will search far and wide to bring you the best Tips& Tricks so you can always resort to us for something to surprise your lover with.
THE HIGHER THE BETTER! When romping with your man in a position standing up, leave on a pair of sexy stiletto heels...and nothing else. The shoes' shape will help keep you pitched forward on your toes for maximum maneuverability, and the mere sight of them will drive him crazy wild.
TRIGGER YOUR ORGASM: Deliberately Develop Orgasm Triggers
The more your brain travels a certain path neurologically, the more effortless it becomes. The act of smiling — actually curving your lips upward — lets your brain know you're happy, which triggers the release of serotonin, a hormone that makes you feel happy. The same applies to orgasm: The more signals of impending orgasm that your brain can recognize, the easier it will be to trigger the orgasmic response. Focus on the things you naturally do on approach to orgasm — sounds you make, how you move — then exaggerate them.
SOLO PLAY: Self discovery shouldn't end once you become sexually active. When ppl ask for tips on how to be a better lover, one peice of advice for everyone; masturbate. Yes; the more you have sex with yourself, the better you will be at having sex period. The more you know about your body, what you like, dislike, what... feels good, what doesnt, & what turns you on and off. The more you can share with your partner.
POSITIONS: Look Ma, No Hands!! While straddling your lover you run your nails up and down his chest, he plays with your inner labia & rolls your nipples around between his fingers, suddenly the dilemma is clear; Who's going to hold the vibrator? Who really has an extra hand to spare in those moments?? The Honey Bunny's Company has a wide array of wearable vibrators so you can free up your hands to do more important things like caressing your baby. Try some of these..
In an Arizona State University study on 58 middle-aged women, physical affection or sexual behavior with a partner significantly predicted lower negative mood and stress, and higher positive mood the following day. Simply put, researchers found that sex and physical intimacy led women to feel less stressed and be in a better mood the next day.
DID YOU KNOW?? It happens to be illegal to make anatomically correct sex toys. So in order to skirt the law, manufactures transform the product into a persons head shape with a face on the front and make the clitoral attachments into cute little animals. Other than that the shape will not be exactly like a penis.
POSITIONS: Half off the bed!! Great for Hitting your G spot. How does it work?You simply lie on your bed, with your legs on the floor. He stands up and enters you, while you hook your legs round his legs ors, if you can manage it, round his waist. He then does all the work, thrusting into you.The turn-onsYou get to lie... back and do nothing 'and' your G-spot should get a tickling.The turn-offs If your fella isn't fit enough, this might have to stop before it's begun, as it takes a fair bit of stamina.
THE SEXUAL RESPONSE CYCLE: learn about what happens to you during sex!!
The sexual response cycle has four phases: excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution. Both men and women experience these phases, although the timing usually is different. For example, it is unlikely that both partners will reach orgasm at the same time. In addition, the intensity of the response and the time spent in each phase varies from person to person. Understanding these differences may help partners better understand one another's bodies and responses, and enhance the sexual experience.
Phase 1: Excitement
General characteristics of the excitement phase, which can last from a few minutes to several hours, include the following:
Muscle tension increases.
Heart rate quickens and breathing is accelerated.
Skin may become flushed (blotches of redness appear on the chest and back).
Nipples become hardened or erect.
Blood flow to the genitals increases, resulting in swelling of the woman's clitoris and labia minora (inner lips), and erection of the man's penis.
Vaginal lubrication begins.
The woman's breasts become fuller and the vaginal walls begin to swell.
The man's testicles swell, his scrotum tightens, and he begins secreting a lubricating liquid.
Phase 2: Plateau
General characteristics of the plateau phase, which extends to the brink of orgasm, include the following:
The changes begun in phase 1 are intensified.
The vagina continues to swell from increased blood flow, and the vaginal walls turn a dark purple.
The woman's clitoris becomes highly sensitive (may even be painful to touch) and retracts under the clitoral hood to avoid direct stimulation from the penis.
The man's testicles are withdrawn up into the scrotum.
Breathing, heart rate, and blood pressure continue to increase.
Muscle spasms may begin in the feet, face, and hands.
Muscle tension increases.
Phase 3: Orgasm
The orgasm is the climax of the sexual response cycle. It is the shortest of the phases and generally lasts only a few seconds. General characteristics of this phase include the following:
Involuntary muscle contractions begin.
Blood pressure, heart rate, and breathing are at their highest rates, with a rapid intake of oxygen.
Muscles in the feet spasm.
There is a sudden, forceful release of sexual tension.
In women, the muscles of the vagina contract. The uterus also undergoes rhythmic contractions.
In men, rhythmic contractions of the muscles at the base of the penis result in the ejaculation of semen.
A rash, or "sex flush" may appear over the entire body.
Phase 4: Resolution
During resolution, the body slowly returns to its normal level of functioning, and swelled and erect body parts return to their previous size and color. This phase is marked by a general sense of well-being, enhanced intimacy and, often, fatigue. Some women are capable of a rapid return to the orgasm phase with further sexual stimulation and may experience multiple orgasms. Men need recovery time after orgasm, called a refractory period, during which they cannot reach orgasm again. The duration of the refractory period varies among men and usually lengthens with advancing age.
DOGGY STYLE ANYONE?
April 8, 2010
We came across this article of different sex positions for doggy style and some info about this classic position. Enjoy!
Great sex positions are ones that are comfortable, let you do what you want (by yourself or with partners), and don't take away from your experience of sexual pleasure. Read on to learn more about doggy style or rear entry sex positions.
Basic Doggy Style Sex Position:
Both people are on their knees, with one partner penetrating the other from behind. The partner being penetrated is on their hands and knees.
Variations of Doggy Style Position:
You can achieve a lot of the same sensation and benefits of the rear entry position with one or both partners standing. If standing, the partner being penetrated can bend at the waist, spread their legs, and use a wall or piece of furniture to support themselves on.
Another variation is to have the partner being penetrated scoot to the end of the bed, with their upper body on the bed, and their bum and legs off the bed.
*Photos courtesy of Come As You Are
Pros of the Doggy Style Sex Position:
People love this position for many reasons. A lot of women say that this position facilitates stimulation of their g-spot through penetration better than other positions.
For the person doing the penetration, you are able to use your legs and hips and get a lot of energy into thrusting.
This position also allows the person doing the penetration to use their hands, including easy access to add in anal stimulation or clitoral stimulation with a hand or a vibrator.
Cons of the Doggy Style Sex Position:
If you’re doing this on your knees, it can be hard on them. You can use pillows to make it more comfortable.
This position doesn’t allow you to be face to face with your partner.
By: Cory Silverberg
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An aphrodisiac is a food, drug, potion, or other agent that arouses sexual desire. Here is a list of Ten that can get you in the mood for some loving...
Figs - did you know that this ultra sweet purple fruit was a delicacy to the Ancient Egyptians and Greeks? Ages ago, and still to this day, some cultures believe that this fruit yields fertility. Could it be because if it’s striking resemblance to a vagina and it’s sweet, juicy center? Who knows, but it’s appearance, taste and texture are erotic in nature. So try sharing one with your loved one!
Bananas - while it’s phallic shape might be the obvious arousal component, studies have shown that this particular fruit is packed with an enzyme called bromelain, which is known to enhance a man’s sexual performance. This is also true for pineapples! So get creative and find a way to include these fruits into a meal.
Avocados – even though this fruit is comparable a to shapely woman, the Aztecs referred to the Avocado tree as the “testicle tree” because avocados hang in sets and resembled the male anatomy. This fruit is rich in texture and flavor and is known to enhance the function of the human glandular system. Not to mention, its health components! High in potassium, the vitamin B6 and folic acid you can’t go wrong with avocados.
Asparagus - did you know that this vegetable was served in massive quantities to men on the night before and the night of their wedding because of it’s rumored effects on male performance. Asparagus, though, is known to boost the production of the chemicals needed to climax in both men and women.
Almonds - the actual nut in it’s raw form holds many restorative properties and almonds alone possess great nutritional value. On the other hand, they have a very distinct smell and flavor when cooked. The aroma and taste when sweetened is known to promote arousal and was also known boost fertility.
Chili Peppers - the phyical effects of digesting chili peppers mirrors the chemical effects of sex in the human body. A chemical within the pepper that gives off heat happens to stimulate nerve endings, naturally raise the heart rate and causes the production of sweat. Research has shown that eating these peppers causes the body to produce the endorhpins that are present during sex.
Oysters – okay. True story: thorough the lifespan of some oysters, they often changes their sex from male to female, sort of like a rotation, if you will. Because of this, it is believed that oysters provide the perfect amount of zinc, which regulates progesterone levels, which ultimately boosts the libido.
Basil – this wonderful herb is good for the body in many ways. Its aroma is distinct and unmistakeable. When ingested, basil kicks the body temperature up a notch and gives off a warming sensation along with its capability to improve the circulatory system. Warm, good vibes is the best way to describe this herb’s effects.
Chocolate - yep, and the darker the better! Dark chocolate is packed with antioxidants while lighter or milk chocolate has very little cocoa and is full of sugar. When chocolate is consumed in its darkest form, it helps the brain produce serotonin, a stimulant, which is known to heighten the craving for physical contact.
Champagne - ever notice how the effects of champagne take place much faster than wine or alcohol? The effervescence of this liquid aphrodisiac not only hits the bloodstream with ferocious speed, but it’s also known to give off the same aroma as female pheromones! So that warm, bubbly feeling champagne gives off is meant to carry over into other activities!